April 2, 2008

  • maasu MAASU, MADtv and… KORI

    Just got back this weekend from speaking and workshopping at MAASU (Midwestern Asian American Student Union) and had a great time.  As most may be aware, in my workshops I have the participants “audition” for the roles that my colleagues and I read for as actors – both the good and the bad. 

    it guy In doing so, it gives folks a real sense of how these roles seen by millions of viewers and will ultimately and subtly “trickle down” to the mass public’s perception of Asian Americans.  That seeing an Asian American character described for the 20th time as:

    Office I.T. guy, nerdy and shy.  Awkward around women.  However has the ability to access information with lightning speed” or fiercely intelligent (a nerd, even), and asexual” 

    Leads to real-life statistics like this:

    The authors of “Freakonomics” did a study of women who dated online and found 97% of white women preferred white men but responded equally to profiles of Hispanic Men if they made $77k+ more, Black Men if they made $154k+ and Asian Men if they made $247k or more. 

    cash wad In the workshops, I ask folks how did the Asian American Male become so undesirable – that only having a quarter million dollars in his pocket could even things out? 

    My theory is it comes largely from the roles that are inundated in a medium that is seen maau wrkshop all over the country and now the world with sites like YouTube.  Because honestly, who’d want to be with a guy whose fingers are only magic on the computer keyboard and not in the bedroom? 

    So my intent in doing these workshops is to expose the future leaders and pillars of society to what is going on in the real world so that when they actually are in a position to do something about it 15 or 20 years from now… they’ll hopefully do so. 

    Anyway, it’s always inspiring to see the younger generation get gung-ho about being proactive.  However, I do often wonder about how many follow-though once every day life madtv_logogets to ‘em after college.bobby2

    Then a few weeks ago, Bobby Lee invited me into the Korean Drama parody sketch world of “Attitudes and Feelings, Both Desireable and Sometimes Secretive” on MADtv. 

    ping pong Here’s where they left off in the storyline last season and the saga will continue with Bobby, Sung Kang, Cathy Shim and myself (speaking Chinese in a Korean Drama, natch!) this Saturday, April 5th on MADtv, 11/10 central on FOX!  Not to give anything away but I can tell you the sketch has something to do with Ping-Pong! 

    I saw Bobby at an event two Christmas’ ago, and told him how much I loved the ‘Attitudes’ sketches to which he replied, “You wanna do one?”  To which I replied, “Hell johnny ganyeah!”  And lo and behold, 15 months later when there was an opening, he was true to his word. 

    When I met comedian Danny Cho at MAASU this weekend, he said Bobby did the same thing for him — getting him in as “Pongo” on his Thailand Cable Access sketch on MADtv.  Check out when Danny cuts in on Carmen “Electrica” at 4:38 during the slow dance at the end.  Cracks me up all the time and apparently Carmen too – Danny told me that was part was all improvised.

    Granted, the stuff isn’t Shakespeare but here’s a guy that’s at least trying to use his position on a show to integrate as many Asian faces as possible and being a generous guy lending a hand out.  Good lookin’ out, Bobby!

    KORI 006 And then finally – it happened again 2 weeks ago.  Low amniotic fluids in my wife’s belly.  Baby needs to come out 3 weeks early.  Sound familiar?  Well that’s because the same thing happened 3 years ago with Avery!

    Although this time we got to schedule the C-section the next day!  Got to go home, shower, pack a bag.  24 hours notice — sheesh, cake walk.  Anyway, please welcome… Kori Layne Shen at 5lbs 10oz, 19 inches long. 

    Avery’s been a great big sis so far. 

    I took her to see “Horton Hears a Who” last week since I was going to miss her B-Day speaking at MAASU and this time I got her a pair of earmuffs to wear because the earmuffstheater’s loud sound system just freaks her out. 

    She asked if Kori could come.  I said, “No, she’s too small.”  And she retorted, “But I’ll share my earmuffs with her!”  Aww.  I have feeling I’m in store for a lot more “Aww” moments in the near future.

Comments (25)

  • Your daughters are gorgeous! -=D My bf is so anxious for our mixed beauties in the future!

  • Congratulations! That’s wonderful news.

  • Hey Parry! Thanks for coming to MAASU! I wasn’t able to attend your workshop because ECC was holding elections and bids, but I really enjoyed your keynote speech. It really inspires me to continue being active within the APIA community after college. I keep worrying I won’t know where to go or how to stay involved, but I’m sure I’ll figure it out! It’s not surprising that we still have a long way to go within Hollywood, but we’ve made great strides! Hopefully I’ll be able to become involved within the movie industry and help Asians move forward! Thanks again! =)

    -Jessica

  • congrats! much health and happiness, man.

  • Wow – has 3 years already passed since the birth of your first daughter?! I still remember reading about the adventure! Needless to say, congratulations to you and your wife! =)

  • ooh congratulations on the baby girl! they’re so beautiful!! i will tune in for that special episode of “attitudes and feelings” haha [:

  • and that’s why you rarely see a white women with an asian guy.

  • Congratulations! Your daughters are so adorable!

    Your workshop is incredibly interesting! I’ve become really interested and passionate about Asians and Asian-Americans in film lately and I definitely hope to catch you on your tour one of these days. (:

  • congratulations on the arrival of your new #1 fans, and many memorable days to come……………………..

  • Congratulations on your family’s new addition!

  • i had no idea you were even married with kids! they are sooo beautiful… congrats!

    bobby’s korean drama spoofs are SO funny i almost had a heart attack watching it multiple times. i can’t wait to see you in it!

  • Congrats and welcome to the world Kori!!!

    and life will never be the same with 2 LOL trust me we thought it’s will be great, but it’s busier than busy =)

  • New addition to the Shen’s clan~~~ congrats!! your daughters are beautiful and I hope your wife is doing well.

  • that is the cutest picture ever of your daughters! (although i’m sure i’m not the first to tell you so, nor do you need to hear it because you already knew!)

  • cute! your girl is growing so fast! hope you are well!

    Sandy’Ci

  • congratulations! they are both adorable!!!

  • Congratulations! Yes, mixes are beautiful and yours are no exception ^_^

  • congrats on the birth of your daughter!

    bobby lee is performing on my campus tomorrow night!

  • I would be attracted to a man of ANY ethnicity with $247k in his pocket. Okay, just kidding – maybe that’s mostly a measure of how shallow the average american women is rather than an indicator of who’s most attractive? Although being raised in California instead of the midwest might have made me biased. (And jaded.)

    Your daughters are adorable. Did you enjoy Horton Hears a Who? I’m trying to convince my adult sisters to go watch it with me, I had better luck getting my 41 year old husband on board. Maybe I need to go have babies (or abduct some.)

  • I just watched Mad TV. You are hilarious. Good luck with other shows.

  • i just saw the madtv skit. haha you were great. hope to see you on it again!

  • Omg, SOOOO CUTE!!! I remember Avery had the same or similar head thing in her baby pic :]

    So I see you went with Kori…nice!

    Hope all’s well :]

  • danny cho is hilarious.  bobby lee also let a friend of mine open for him after bobby opened in front of him during amateur night at a comedy club.   he felt bad because my friend had to go on stage after him, a real comedian.  he’s dope. 

  • yay for babies!

  • Hmm…so you travel around attempting to make future Asian American leaders aware of the trickle-down effect and trying to make them conscious of the negative Asian stereotypes that influence the public perception of the Asian-American Male as undesirable…

    But then – in the same exact posting – you post a sketch that is the epitome of EXACTLY what you’re talking about and only goes to further reinforce those stereotypes of the Asian male as totally sexually reprehensible!!!

    I would venture to guess that your blog audience is much larger and more diverse than the Asian American Student Unions you are speaking to…

    So, all in all, think you might be doing more harm here than good?

    ……….

    Congrats on the new kid!

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